Extended Family Weekend
October 9 - 12, 2026
REGISTRATION OPEN DECEMBER 2025
Registration Deadline September 9
C.O.P.S. Extended Family Weekend is planned for the surviving extended family members and their spouse/domestic partner* (21 years or older) of law enforcement officers who died in the line of duty, as determined by C.O.P.S. criteria. Eligible family members include: grandparents, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, in-laws (on surviving spouse’s side), and grandchildren.
*Domestic Partner is defined as a long term committed legal or interpersonal relationship between two individuals who live together and share a common domestic life (i.e., not just a boy/girlfriend).
Testimonial from a 2025 Extended Family Weekend Attendee:
"I just feel a lot of support from other survivors when I go. I love to go to better understand what my husband’s family goes through too!"
What to Expect
After the death of an officer, extended family members often find ways to support those closest to the officer by setting their feelings aside. C.O.P.S. Extended Family Weekend creates a safe space for these family members to gather and process their grief in an environment that is removed from the stresses of everyday life.
This weekend offers a trusting atmosphere where participants can engage in both relaxing and challenging activities. Throughout the weekend, attendees have the opportunity to work with licensed mental health professionals who lead various group sessions and provide individualized counseling. For a detailed schedule of events, please
click here to view our sample agenda for the weekend.
By the end of the weekend, our goal is that you will leave with a deeper sense of personal growth and valuable tools to help you and your family navigate your grief.
Please review our general Code of Conduct
What is the Cost of the Weekend?
Your only expense is your travel to and from the St. Louis Airport if you are flying. Or, to and from the YMCA Trout Lodge, if you are driving. If flying, buses will be available to pick up attendees from the airport on the scheduled arrival day and back on departure day.
All lodging, meals and activities are provided at no cost. If you fail to cancel your attendance and you do not show up for the Weekend, you could be subject to a participation fee for the following year’s Weekend.
Session Examples:
- It’s Meaningful to Me
- Self-Care for Yourself and Your Relationships
- Reflect and Rise: Sharing Challenges and Victories
- Effect of Negative Media Coverage on Police Officers and Their Families
- Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say, But Don’t Say It Mean
Travel Information
Please do not make any travel arrangements until you receive confirmation from C.O.P.S. that your registration has been received and approved to attend the program.
After confirmation: Attendees will be sent detailed information to book their travel arrangements.
Limited travel assistance may be available. Contact your local C.O.P.S. Chapter or contact the C.O.P.S. National Office for additional information.
